Understanding the Borderline Mother Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship

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Pub. Date: 2002-07-01
Publisher(s): Jason Aronson, Inc.
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Summary

Some readers may recognize their mothers as well as themselves in this book. They will also find specific suggestions for creating healthier relationships. Addressing the adult children of borderlines and the therapists who work with them, Dr. Lawson shows how to care for the waif without rescuing her, to attend to the hermit without feeding her fear, to love the queen without becoming her subject, and to live with the witch without becoming her victim.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments ix
Preface xi
Introduction xv
Make-Believe Mothers
1(30)
The Darkness Within
31(22)
The Waif Mother
53(24)
The Hermit Mother
77(22)
The Queen Mother
99(20)
The Witch Mother
119(32)
Make-Believe Children
151(24)
Fairy-Tale Fathers
175(24)
Loving the Waif Without Rescuing Her
199(26)
Loving the Hermit Without Feeding Her Fear
225(22)
Loving the Queen Without Becoming Her Subject
247(22)
Living with the Witch Without Becoming Her Victim
269(22)
Living Backwards
291(18)
References 309(8)
Index 317

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