It could be your neighbor, your coworker, your son, or the woman sitting next to you in church. When combat veterans return from war, they’re often confused. They struggle to reconnect with their families; the cheering crowds and smothering hugs make them want to jump out of their skin; and sometimes they even long to return to the hell of deployment.
 
What they’ve experienced in combat can radically change how they view themselves, others, and the world at large. They may have never seen so much hurt, suffering, death, and destruction, which leaves them questioning, “Where is God?”
 
Dr. Tiffany Tajiri, a veteran USAF officer and board-certified clinical psychologist, has been in countless sessions with combat veterans and their loved ones and now shares powerful first-hand accounts, lessons, proven exercises, and biblical truth. Whether experiencing combat directly as a veteran or wanting to help bring healing as a family member, pastor, chaplain, or counselor, this book is essential. The emotional, psychological, and spiritual healing encountered applies to anyone facing harsh realities and uncomfortable questions and hoping to find peace again.

 

Dr. Tiffany Tajiri is a licensed and board-certified clinical psychologist, a veteran US Air Force officer, and currently the chief of the largest behavioral health clinic at Fort Bliss, Texas. She is the CEO and founder of Stand Up and Recover, Inc., the creator of Rhythm Restoration, and co-author of Abundant Recovery curriculum at Abundant church. She lives in El Paso, Texas with her son, fiancé COL(R) Army, her puppy husky, and two lovebirds (actual parrots). 

CONTENTS
Foreword by SEAC (Ret) John Wayne Troxell 15
Preface 17
Introduction 19
Part I: Understanding Combat Experiences
Chapter 1: Posttraumatic Stress 25
Chapter 2: Control Is an Illusion 47
Chapter 3: Intentions on the Battlefield 59
Chapter 4: Death in Combat 71
Chapter 5: Where Is God in War? 81
Part II: In Session with Combat Veterans
Chapter 6: Killer of Innocence 95
Chapter 7: Flatlines 115
Chapter 8: You in Exchange for Me 133
Chapter 9: Your Blood on My Hands 149
Part III: Miracles in Combat
Chapter 10: Miracle on the Battlefield 173
Chapter 11: Last Words Letter 185
Part IV: What’s Next for You and Your Family?
Chapter 12: Combat and Marriage 201
Chapter 13: Final Thoughts and Your Big Questions 213
Additional Information 221
Glossary 223