Preface |
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CHAPTER ONE: Denial and Other Forms of Brain Trickery |
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Why People Use Drugs-The Brain's Mind-Body Connection |
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Addicts Have a Low Emotional IQ |
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Genetics, Environment, and the Luck of the Draw |
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Using This Workbook as a Tool for Clarity and Change |
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No One Wants to Be an Addict |
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Excuses, Secrets, Problems, and Consequences |
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Breaking through Denial and Getting Help |
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CHAPTER TWO: Understanding the Nature of Drug Addiction |
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My Love Affair with Drugs |
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Why Do Some People Develop Addictions while Others Do Not? |
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CHAPTER THREE: Double Your Pleasure, Double Your Trouble: Combining Drugs and Behaviors |
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Complicating Matters-Combing Drugs with Behaviors |
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Further Complications-Other Disorders that Drug Use Temporarily Soothes |
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CHAPTER FOUR: Embrace the Process |
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First-Order and Second-Order Change |
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Skills Needed for Each Kind of Change |
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Process of Recovery over Time |
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CHAPTER FIVE: Damage to the Body from Drug Abuse |
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Damage to the Body and Mind |
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CHAPTER SIX: Recognizing and Limiting Damage to Relationships, Career, and the Soul |
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Completing a Damage-Control Plan |
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Damage by Disclosure-and by Nondisclosure |
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To Whom Should I Disclose? |
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How Much Should I Disclose? |
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Completing a Disclosure Plan |
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Developing a Press Release |
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CHAPTER SEVEN: Healing Relationships through Accountability |
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Establishing Agreements for Accountability |
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Steps to Asking for Forgiveness |
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Support Groups for Family Members |
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CHAPTER EIGHT: A New Plan |
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Authentic Self as Internal Motivation |
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Defining Your Own Sobriety |
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Growing Your Authentic Self by Creating |
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Internal versus External Motivation |
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Interpretation and Use of the PCI |
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Seeking Professional Help |
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Taking Time to Think through Journaling |
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CHAPTER NINE: Creating Your Recovery Support Community |
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Developing Twelve-Step Support |
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Knowing the Signs of a Healthy Twelve-Step Group |
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Developing and Maintaining a Relationship with a Sponsor |
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Managing Conflicts between One's Relationship and Recovery Activities |
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Engaging in Service Activities with Others |
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Identifying a Sobriety Celebration Date |
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Alternative Support for Getting Sober |
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Charlotte Kasi's 14-Step Program |
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Self Management and Recovery Training (SMART) |
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Moderation Management (MM) |
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CHAPTER TEN: Relapse Prevention Planning |
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Relapse-Prevention Tool Kit |
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CHAPTER ELEVEN: Maintaining Long-Term Recovery |
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What to Do If You Have a Slip or a Relapse |
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Increasing Your Levels of Care |
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Stages of Relapse and Recommended Action |
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Disclosure-An Ongoing Process |
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List of Skills to Learn for Long-Term Recovery |
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APPENDIX A: Frequently Asked Questions on Drug Dependency, Treatment, and Recovery |
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APPENDIX B: Resources |
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Twelve-Step Programs-Contact Information |
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Twelve Steps of Alcohol Anonymous |
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Thoughts-Feelings Journal |
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