About the Author |
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Contributors |
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Preface |
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Acknowledgments |
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Introduction |
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UNIT I: GETTING ACQUAINTED WITH THE FAMILY |
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3 | (38) |
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Exploring the Family Structure |
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5 | (36) |
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5 | (4) |
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9 | (5) |
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Techniques for Focusing on the Family |
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14 | (24) |
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Self-Exploration: Discovering Your Family Life Space |
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38 | (2) |
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Self-Exploration: Using the Jack |
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40 | (1) |
UNIT II: FAMILY CONCEPTS---A SYSTEMS PERSPECTIVE |
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41 | (170) |
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43 | (30) |
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Parents' Socioemotional Investment in Children: Precursors to Successful Individuation and Separation |
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43 | (2) |
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Theories of Individuation |
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45 | (7) |
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Generational Boundaries, Closeness, and Role Behaviors |
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52 | (15) |
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Individuation As a Lifelong Process |
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67 | (3) |
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Self-Exploration: Individuation |
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70 | (3) |
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73 | (24) |
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Infancy and Early Childhood |
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74 | (3) |
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Middle Childhood and Early Adolescence |
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77 | (3) |
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Late Adolescence and Leaving Home |
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80 | (8) |
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Divorce and Joint Custody |
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88 | (5) |
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Parental Death and a Child's Grief |
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93 | (2) |
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Self-Exploration: Separations |
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95 | (2) |
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97 | (22) |
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The Concept of Cutting Off |
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97 | (5) |
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The Painful Process of Cutting Off |
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102 | (2) |
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Reconstructing the Relationship |
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104 | (1) |
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105 | (8) |
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When Are Cutoffs Beneficial? |
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113 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Cutoffs |
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114 | (5) |
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119 | (16) |
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Vulnerability and Self-Protection |
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119 | (2) |
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The Universal Triangle: Father/Mother/Child |
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121 | (1) |
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122 | (8) |
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Triangles and Family Types |
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130 | (3) |
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Recent Research on Triangular Effects |
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133 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Triangles |
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134 | (1) |
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135 | (20) |
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136 | (1) |
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Positive Aspects of the Ritual |
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137 | (3) |
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How Family Rituals Evolve and Develop |
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140 | (6) |
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Altering Rituals and Establishing New Ones |
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146 | (2) |
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Rituals and the Family Life Cycle |
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148 | (5) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Rituals |
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153 | (2) |
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155 | (16) |
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155 | (10) |
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Adaptive versus Maladaptive Secrets |
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165 | (5) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Secrets |
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170 | (1) |
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Multigenerational Effects |
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171 | (18) |
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Patterns of Multigenerational Transmission |
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171 | (8) |
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179 | (3) |
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182 | (1) |
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Appreciating One's Multigenerational Heritage |
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183 | (5) |
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Self-Exploration: Multigenerational Effects |
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188 | (1) |
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189 | (22) |
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190 | (1) |
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Networks and Childhood Resiliency |
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191 | (3) |
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194 | (2) |
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The Importance of Networks |
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196 | (2) |
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Networks and Elderly People |
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198 | (4) |
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Networks and Black Americans |
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202 | (2) |
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Using---and Not Using---Networks |
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204 | (6) |
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Self-Exploration: Networking |
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210 | (1) |
UNIT III: FAMILY CONCEPTS---ECOLOGICAL STRESSORS |
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211 | (88) |
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Family Resiliency and Poverty |
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213 | (30) |
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213 | (4) |
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217 | (19) |
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236 | (3) |
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Professional Consultation and Training |
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239 | (2) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Resiliency and Poverty |
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241 | (2) |
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Chronic Illness in Children: Stressors and Family Coping Strategies |
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243 | (32) |
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Prevalence and Nature of Psychological Disorders |
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243 | (2) |
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The Bad News About Prevalence |
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245 | (1) |
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The Good News About Prevalence |
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246 | (1) |
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A Family Systems Framework for Understanding Chronic Illness |
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246 | (1) |
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247 | (1) |
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Family System Resources and Family System Dynamics |
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248 | (3) |
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Clinical Assessment of Family Meanings: The Meaning of Illness Evolves |
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251 | (5) |
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A Treatment Model for Medical Family Therapy: Strategies for Chronic Illness |
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256 | (10) |
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A Medical Family Therapy Toolbox |
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266 | (7) |
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Self-Exploration: Chronic Illness |
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273 | (2) |
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275 | (24) |
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275 | (1) |
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Normative Processes and Developmental Issues of Adoptive Families |
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276 | (17) |
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293 | (3) |
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296 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Are We Ready to Adopt a Child? |
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297 | (2) |
UNIT IV: FAMILY CONCEPTS---A COGNITIVE PERSPECTIVE |
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299 | (88) |
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301 | (24) |
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Individual Communication Styles |
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302 | (6) |
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308 | (1) |
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308 | (5) |
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313 | (5) |
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The ``Ka'' Solution: New Terms for Stepfamilies and the New Times |
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318 | (3) |
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Self-Exploration: Family Types |
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321 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Parenting Style |
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321 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Intimacy |
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321 | (4) |
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325 | (32) |
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Strategies for Reducing Conflict |
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328 | (6) |
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334 | (1) |
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Using Fights to Advantage |
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335 | (3) |
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Problem Solving and Problem Behaviors in Children |
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338 | (7) |
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Power and Problem Solving |
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345 | (9) |
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Self-Exploration: Problem Solving |
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354 | (3) |
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357 | (30) |
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358 | (3) |
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Child Care and Child Socialization |
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361 | (3) |
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364 | (4) |
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368 | (1) |
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369 | (6) |
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375 | (5) |
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380 | (4) |
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384 | (2) |
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Self-Exploration: Productivity |
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386 | (1) |
UNIT V: FAMILY CONCEPTS---A SIBLING PERSPECTIVE |
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387 | (38) |
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389 | (16) |
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Apparent Effects of Birth Order |
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389 | (6) |
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Problems in Identifying Birth Order Effects |
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395 | (6) |
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401 | (2) |
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Birth Order and Marriage Partners |
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403 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Birth Order |
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404 | (1) |
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405 | (20) |
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405 | (4) |
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409 | (3) |
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Sibling Rivalry and Tensions |
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412 | (2) |
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414 | (4) |
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418 | (3) |
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Self-Exploration: Sibling Relationships |
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421 | (4) |
UNIT VI: FAMILY CONCEPTS---A SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE |
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425 | (108) |
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427 | (24) |
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427 | (4) |
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Factors Affecting Internal versus External Attributions |
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431 | (5) |
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Factors Affecting Attribution Style |
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436 | (6) |
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Complex Attributions and Narrative Therapy |
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442 | (6) |
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Self-Exploration: Attribution |
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448 | (3) |
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451 | (20) |
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The Theory of Family Equity |
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451 | (2) |
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453 | (6) |
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Developing an Equity Pattern |
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459 | (6) |
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Distribution of Power Between Marital Partners |
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465 | (1) |
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Power Allocation Between Parents and Children |
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466 | (2) |
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468 | (3) |
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471 | (16) |
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Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary |
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471 | (2) |
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Reactance versus Compliance |
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473 | (3) |
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476 | (1) |
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Role Boundaries and Coping Styles |
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477 | (2) |
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479 | (2) |
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Individual Differences and Psychological Reactance |
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481 | (1) |
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Reactance and Paradoxical Interventions |
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481 | (1) |
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Resistance and Reactance in Family Therapy |
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482 | (1) |
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Helping Others and Accepting Favors |
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482 | (3) |
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Self-Exploration: Reactance |
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485 | (2) |
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Cultural Influences on the Family |
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487 | (24) |
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The Changing Emphasis of Parenting: From Discipline Skills to Social Activism |
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487 | (6) |
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Marketing and Materialism |
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493 | (13) |
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Technology and Family Life Education |
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506 | (1) |
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507 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Effects of American Culture on the Family |
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508 | (3) |
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511 | (22) |
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The Importance of Spirituality and Religion in Family Therapy and Child-Centered Presenting Problems |
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512 | (6) |
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518 | (3) |
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521 | (5) |
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Ethical and Professional Dilemmas and Guidelines |
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526 | (4) |
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530 | (1) |
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Self-Exploration: Draw a Spiritual Flower |
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531 | (2) |
Resources |
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533 | (58) |
Author Index |
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591 | (16) |
Subject Index |
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