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A Word or Two about Words. |
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Oral versus Written Stories. |
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The Structure of This Book. |
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Story 1 A Story of the Story. |
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PART I: EFFECTIVE STORYTELLING FOR KIDS AND TEENS. |
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Chapter 1: The Magic of Metaphor. |
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Why Tell Healing and Teaching Stories to Kids and Teens? |
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A Brief History of Teaching Tales. |
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How Stories Teach Values. |
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How Stories Build Experience. |
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How Stories Facilitate Problem-Solving. |
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How Stories Change and Heal. |
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When Not to Speak in Stories. |
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Chapter 2: Guidelines for Effective Storytelling. |
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Ten Guidelines for Effective Storytelling. |
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Six Guidelines for the Storyteller’s Voice. |
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Chapter 3: Tools and Techniques. |
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Books as a Source of Healing Stories: Bibliotherapy. |
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Drama as a Source of Healing Stories. |
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Videos or DVDs as a Source of Healing Stories: Videotherapy. |
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Puppets, Dolls, and Toys as Metaphor. |
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Child-Generated Metaphors. |
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To Discuss or Not to Discuss? |
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PART II: HEALING STORIES, TEACHING STORIES. |
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Chapter 4: Enriching Learning. |
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Story 2 Kids Can Make a Difference: A Kid Story. |
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Story 3 Kids Can Make a Difference: A Teen Story. |
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Story 4 Feed What You Want to Grow. |
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Story 5 Look after Yourself. |
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Story 6 Come up Laughing. |
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Story 7 It’s in the Way You Do It. |
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Story 8 Making the Most of What You Are Given. |
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Story 9 Doing What You Can. |
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Story 10 Seeking Happiness. |
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Chapter 5: Caring for Yourself. |
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Story 11 Soaring to New Heights: A Kid Story. |
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Story 12 Soaring to New Heights: A Teen Story. |
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Story 13 Recognizing Your Abilities. |
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Story 15 Discovering Your Specialness. |
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Story 16 The Importance of Accepting Compliments. |
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Story 17 What You Give Is What You Get. |
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Story 18 Good, Not Perfect. |
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Story 20 Increasing Self-Awareness. |
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Chapter 6: Changing Patterns of Behavior. |
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Story 21 Facing Fears: A Kid Story. |
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Story 22 Facing Fears: A Teen Story. |
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Story 23 See for Yourself. |
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Story 24 Learning to Think for Yourself. |
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Story 25 Build on What You Are Good At. |
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Story 26 Learning New Tricks. |
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Story 27 A Gesture That Changed a Whole Suburb. |
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Story 28 Making a Difference. |
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Story 29 Changing Patterns of Behavior. |
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Story 30 I’m Not Afraid Anymore. |
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Chapter 7: Managing Relationships. |
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Story 31 Caught in the Middle: A Kid Story. |
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Story 32 Caught in the Middle: A Teen Story. |
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Story 33 Making and Maintaining Friendships. |
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Story 34 The Four Faithful Friends. |
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Story 35 Negotiating a Solution. |
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Story 37 Finding Tenderness. |
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Story 39 Putting Yourself in Someone Else’s Place. |
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Story 40 Making and Keeping Friends. |
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Chapter 8: Managing Emotions. |
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Story 41 Heightening Pleasure: A Kid Story. |
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Story 42 Heightening Pleasure: A Teen Story. |
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Story 44 Cultivating Contentment. |
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Story 45 Nailing Down Anger. |
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Story 46 Helping with Humor. |
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Story 47 Flying off the Handle. |
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Story 48 Learning to Laugh. |
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Story 49 Change Your Posture, Change Your Feelings. |
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Story 50 Expressing Emotions Congruently. |
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Chapter 9: Creating Helpful Thoughts. |
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Story 51 Managing Grief: A Young Kid Story. |
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Story 52 Managing Grief: A Kid Story. |
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Story 53 An Act of Kindness. |
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Story 54 Things May Not Be What They Seem. |
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Story 55 Positive Reframing. |
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Story 56 Thoughts Determine Feelings. |
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Story 57 Finding Exceptions to Problems. |
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Story 58 Learning to Use What You Have. |
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Story 59 Learning to Discriminate. |
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Story 60 Awakening Confidence. |
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Chapter 10: Developing Life Skills. |
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Story 61 Facing a Moral Dilemma: A Kid Story. |
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Story 62 Facing a Moral Dilemma: A Teen Story. |
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Story 63 Learning about Rules. |
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Story 64 Sometimes Terrible Things Happen. |
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Story 65 Accepting What You Have. |
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Story 66 Taking Responsibility. |
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Story 67 Making Decisions. |
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Story 68 Taking a Different View. |
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Story 69 Overcoming Fear. |
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Story 70 The Secrets of Success. |
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Chapter 11: Building Problem-Solving Skills. |
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Story 71 Overcoming Adversity: A Kid Story. |
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Story 72 Overcoming Adversity: A Teen Story. |
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Story 73 Collaborative Problem-Solving. |
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Story 74 Thinking through a Problem. |
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Story 75 Solving a Problem. |
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Story 77 Learning to Share. |
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Story 78 Tending to the Neglected. |
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Story 80 Creating a Wish. |
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Chapter 12: Managing Life’s Challenging Times. |
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Story 81 Blowing Away Pain: A Kid Story. |
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Story 82 Managing Pain: A Teen Story. |
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Story 83 Beating a Bully. |
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Story 85 Coping with Illness. |
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Story 86 Finding Solutions. |
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Story 87 Facing Challenges. |
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Story 88 Getting Back on Your Feet. |
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Story 89 Facing Thoughts of Suicide. |
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Story 90 Learning to Care for Yourself. |
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Chapter 13: Kids’ Own Healing Stories. |
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Story 91 The Ghost Who Learned to Scare. |
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Story 94 Mary-Jane’s Story. |
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Story 95 Sally’s Problem. |
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Story 98 Rock Your Way out of It. |
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Story 99 When There Is Nothing I Can Do. |
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Story 100 Lucy Mac’s Story. |
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PART III: CREATING YOUR OWN HEALING STORIES FOR KIDS. |
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Chapter 14: How Can I Use Metaphors Effectively? |
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Potential Pathways for Effective Metaphor Therapy. |
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Potential Pitfalls in Effective Metaphor Therapy. |
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Chapter 15: Where Do I Get the Ideas for Healing Stories? |
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Metaphors Built on a Basis of Evidence. |
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Metaphors Built on Heroes. |
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Metaphors Built on Imagination. |
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Metaphors Built on Therapeutic Strategies. |
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Metaphors Built on an Idea. |
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Metaphors Built on a Child’s Own Story. |
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Metaphors Built on Humor. |
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Metaphors Built on Cross-Cultural Tales. |
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Metaphors Built on Client Cases. |
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Metaphors Built on Everyday Experiences. |
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Guidelines for Using Personal Life Stories. |
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Chapter 16: How Do I Plan and Present Healing Stories? |
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Make an Outcome-Oriented Assessment. |
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Ground the Story in Reality. |
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Chapter 17: Teaching Parents to Use Healing Stories. |
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Stories for Parents and Parenting. |
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Some Values of Teaching Parents to Use Metaphors. |
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Steps for Teaching Parents Storytelling. |
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An Example of Effective Parental Storytelling. |
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Helping Parents Build Storytelling Skills. |
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. . . And the Story Continues. |
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Story 101 Will You Be My Teacher? |
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Resources, References, and Other Sources of Metaphoric Stories. |
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